October 20, 2011

dear radley,

I first met you at twenty. Within weeks you bought me flowers and I called you charming. Your hair was buzzed and my hair was curly and I fell in love with you so easily and instantly that it didn't feel like falling at all, but more like floating or sailing or sinking back into an old favorite chair. You rode a motorcycle and I dressed in bright colors, and soon we couldn't remember our lives without each other.

At twenty-one I met your family and introduced you to mine. It was the year you taught me to cook, the year I convinced you to dance. Your hair grew longer, mine blonder. On Valentine's Day we played laser tag with all our friends-turned-family. That spring we saw six concerts and went on three road trips and in my diary I wrote that you might be The One--that you had the kindest, most beautiful heart I'd ever known.

Twenty-two carried us out of college, out of San Diego, and finally to Chicago. To our first apartment together, to our first careers and our first Thanksgiving and our very first Christmas tree. My accent came back, my hair turned dark. You started to brew beer. Our lives intertwined and so did our DVR, so I embraced Conan and you got to know Oprah. We had living room picnics and rooftop card games and I learned what it's like to love someone so much that you don't mind doing their dishes.

You asked me to marry you at twenty-three. I said yes. Life became so clear that I could see right through it--right through it and into the most wonderful, joyful future with you.

Today you turn twenty-four, exactly six months after I did. Which, I have to say, feels quite appropriate--our birthdays, six months apart. Because that's what they say, after all, isn't it? Opposites attract and all that.

This year, your birthday feels especially special. For one thing, we're back in California and things feel a bit like they've come full circle. But mostly this year feels special because I woke up thinking that for the rest of my life, I'll be able to say that today is my husband's birthday. And for the millionth, trillionth time since first meeting you, I felt like the luckiest, giddiest girl in the world.

Happiest of birthdays to my best friend, my almost husband, my forever and ever.
Wishing you health and contentment and an endless supply of Goldfish for the coming year :)

(Photo: My Flickr)

27 comments:

melanie said... [Reply to comment]

my heart just melted. you are an amazing writer.

Kristina said... [Reply to comment]

This is so beautiful! Happy Birthday to Radley!

Cassie said... [Reply to comment]

So sweet! What true love you've been blessed with. xx

Emily said... [Reply to comment]

My fiance and I are exactly 6 months apart too. (Makes it very easy to remember his birthday, right?) It's a great thing, isn't it? Good luck and a lifetime of happiness to you both!

The Magnificent Lou... said... [Reply to comment]

This is fantastic. I hope Radley has a splendid birthday with the woman who adores him so much!

Holly said... [Reply to comment]

Aw this is so wonderful~! :) Radley and I share a birthday, yay October 20th!! Hope you and your future hubby have a wonderful day!! (And may the rest of your birthdays together be giddy and splendid :D)

Sam said... [Reply to comment]

"I learned what it's like to love someone so much that you don't mind doing their dishes."

so this is love.

Fash Boulevard said... [Reply to comment]

oh my goodness, this is so sweet. i love your guy's story. it's beautiful. amazing post, love. if you get a second, please check out my JewelMint photo shoot. Love to hear what you think. xo

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Laura Marie said... [Reply to comment]

@HollyHappy birthday to you too, Holly! :)

♥Abby said... [Reply to comment]

This post warmed my heart, you two are sooo cute together! Both gorgeous as heck :)
Congrats on the engagement! I've just got back to blogging, so this is the first time I've read of it.

♥Abby

Brittany said... [Reply to comment]

Sweetest words. I don't know you and I haven't read your blog for very long, but I can tell that you two are something special.

MeWantsBeard said... [Reply to comment]

I just got misty, this is so beautiful Laura!

missy. said... [Reply to comment]

aww that was soo sweet. happy birthday radley!

jordan paige said... [Reply to comment]

this is so perfect. i want to read it over and over again. haha you're an incredible writer. happy birthday to radley!

Jasmine said... [Reply to comment]

Goosebumps! Such a cute post, laura :) Happy birthday to Radley

sarah @ design me daily said... [Reply to comment]

Tears actually came to my eyes by the end of reading this. Beautiful writing. Oh, and congrats if I haven't already said it :)

xo sarah

PhotoPuddle said... [Reply to comment]

What lovely words. Happy birthday to Radley.

Gabriela said... [Reply to comment]

I wish I could have a love story like yours. All the happiness and luck for both of you!!!!

Caroline said... [Reply to comment]

This made me shed a tear!! You are darling! Happy Birthday to Radley. Happy you are back in California!! XO!

Tiana Ells said... [Reply to comment]

This was so beautiful, I almost cried. SERIOUSLY. You're so lovely and he is so lucky to have a girl like you. You described love perfectly. My husband and I have known each other for 5 years, been together for 3, and been married for a little over 1.
Anyway, I've always loved your blog and I'm very happy for you.
Happy Birthday Radley!

-Tiana

Rachael said... [Reply to comment]

That was such a beautiful thing to read!!
I hope to find what you two have for myself!

Arianna said... [Reply to comment]

What a sweet & beautiful love story! Thank you for sharing :)

simplysarah said... [Reply to comment]

i actually teared up reading this. wishing you and radley a wonderful life together full of love, joy and laughter :)

Aimee Katherine said... [Reply to comment]

That's so loveley. You're a great writer. Happy birthday Radley! :)

Martyna said... [Reply to comment]

Such a sweet lovestory...:>

Ryan Adair said... [Reply to comment]

Oh my! Couldn't have said it better! this is beautiful!

have a great weekend lady.

Ryan @ Thismustbetheplaceryan

Betsey said... [Reply to comment]

so, so beautiful.